Think & Grow Balls! Blog A Companion to the Bestselling Book

31Jul/110

How To “Find” Yourself & NLP Tactics – Free Bonus e-Books!

If you ordered Think & Grow Balls!: How To Shrink Your Fear & Enlarge Your Courage on my original website between December 2007 and June 2009, you would have received two free e-books in addition to your order as a free bonus.  These e-books were entitled How To "Find" Yourself and NLP Tactics.  

These e-books were a collection of essays, derived from the combined works of other authors and mentors that greatly influenced my writing of Think & Grow Balls!.  I stopped offering them as a bonus after I began publishing Think & Grow Balls! on Lulu; mostly because of Lulu's anonymous ordering system (and copyright concerns); however, with my new blog I can once again interact with my readers!

To that end, I would like to offer the readers of my book a chance to get their hands on the original two e-books for the first time in two years as a special thank you for ordering my book.

 

HERE'S HOW TO RECEIVE YOUR FREE COPIES:

Simply send me an e-mail at:  jd@thinkandgrowballs.com - and include a digital copy of your purchase receipt.  (Think & Grow Balls! is currently available on Lulu, Amazon, Amazon UK, Kindle, and iBookstore.  Your receipt from any of these merchants will suffice.)  After I receive your request I will e-mail you a PDF copy of How To "Find" Yourself and NLP Tactics.

 

ABOUT THE E-BOOKS:

How To "Find" Yourself: A Primer On Guiding Personal Change is a collection of the most powerful tips and advice I've ever come across in all my years of seeking personal achievement.  It was meant to be read BEFORE Think & Grow Balls! and act as the foundation, or "launching pad", of the ignition of your ambition.  You can download the introduction to How To "Find" Yourself by clicking the image below:

 

How To "Find" Yourself

How To "Find" Yourself Original Cover

 

NLP Tactics: A Battle-Ready Manual For Beating Your Subconscious Mind Into Submission is a collection of beginning, intermediate, and advanced Neuro-Linguistic Programming techniques.  It was meant to be read AFTER Think & Grow Balls! as these techniques have the capability of helping you positively reprogram your thinking, or "engaging your auto-pilot", to take control of your life and achieve mastery of your own Carnegie Secret.  You can download the introduction to NLP Tactics by clicking the image below:

 

NLP Tactics

NLP Tactics Original Cover

 

ABOUT THE OFFER:

How To "Find" Yourself: A Primer On Guiding Personal Change and NLP Tactics: A Battle-Ready Manual For Beating Your Subconscious Mind Into Submission are only available through the offer on this blog.  I was doubtful that I would ever offer these e-books as free bonuses again, but because of the recent influx of questions asking me where to find these rare gems AND my deep belief that these e-books add an incredible amount of value and meaning to Think & Grow Balls!, I decided to offer them as free bonuses again.  I reserve the right to cancel this offer at any time for any reason so you may want to get your free copies of these rare e-books soon!

 

HERE'S WHAT TO DO:

1.  Order and download your copy of Think & Grow Balls! by clicking HERE.

2.  Send me an e-mail (jd@thinkandgrowballs.com) and attach a digital copy of your receipt.

3.  I will send you How To "Find" Yourself and NLP Tactics via e-mail.

4.  Read How To "Find" Yourself first.

5.  Read Think & Grow Balls! next.

6.  Read NLP Tactics last.

7.  Reread all three books, in order, once a month for 90 days.

8.  Practice what you have learned.

9.  Reach your Escape Velocity.

10.  Share your story with me and the community!

 

ABOUT THE GUARANTEE:

Ever since the first copy of Think & Grow Balls! was sold back in December 2007 I have made all of my readers a guarantee: I guarantee that if you order my book and don't like it, for whatever reason, I will refund your money, including the cost of shipping.  To this day, I have never had anyone take me up on my offer.  Of this fact, I am most proud.  Try it out, order Think & Grow Balls! today!

Onward & Upward,

JD Bloodstone

18May/111

The Carnegie Secret Revisited: An E-mail From a Reader

I receive e-mails from readers quite often, but I rarely get one as thought-provoking as this one.  This reader gives me their take on the Carnegie Secret and suggests I've missed the mark with my explanation.  I received this message via e-mail on May 16, 2011. I have preserved all of the original punctuation and formatting.  I've also included my response.  So, what do YOU think?  Did I miss the mark?  I'd love to hear what you think.  Leave me a comment at the bottom.

Willpower

An E-mail From a Reader

I believe Carnegie's secret to be a burning desire coupled with an imagination.

Everyone has an imagination - the missing part is a burning desire - something that cannot be bought!

When Carnegie revealed the secret it was simple and elegant ie: A man with imagination and a burning desire can achieve anything he wishes to achieve.

Freewill is just saying anyone can choose success  because they can - hardly an inspiring statement to make Napoleon Hill devote his life to understand 'the secret'.

Your imagination allows for huge creativity in overcoming obsticals on the path to success.

 

Dominic Spencer

Choice

My Response

Hi Dominic,

Thank you for sending me your message.  Just what the Carnegie Secret is has been debated for over half a century.  I don’t think the debate will end for some time, either.

If a person possesses a burning desire and imagination (along with the other 13 success principles) they must still MAKE THE CHOICE to take action towards their definite major purpose.

As Napoleon Hill states, “We were given our willpower for this purpose.”  To me, he could not have been more clear.

Everyone has some idea of what they want their life’s purpose to be; that is the first half of the Carnegie Secret.  The second half is focusing our will on making it happen.

The secret as a whole reads something like this: The secret to achieving your definite major purpose in life is to be able and willing to make it reality.

A person MUST have both halves of the secret in order to make it work.  A person is ABLE by human right, but are they WILLING?  That is the CHOICE they must make.

My interpretation of the Carnegie Secret is really what inspired me to write Think & Grow Balls!.  I mean, if all you need is a burning desire and imagination, then why aren’t more people in the world successful?  Why does the vast majority of the human world population live in poverty?  If self-improvement books, Think & Grow Rich in particular, are so popular, why isn’t EVERYONE who reads them as successful as they wish?

The reason is this: People are not successful because they haven’t directed their willpower towards their goalNapoleon Hill even calls willpower the “Master Key”.  You must USE your willpower to get what you want in life.

Morpheus has a great line in The Matrix where he says, “Knowing the path is different from walking the path.”  The difference is the choice one must make to walk down that path.

Think & Grow Balls! was written as a step-by-step guide on how to motivate yourself to IGNITE your willpower and apply the Carnegie Secret to your life.  It’s a topic that Napoleon Hill never wrote about.  No author had.  So I wrote about it.  It’s the only book, that I know of, that explains how to APPLY the Carnegie Secret… your secret… in eight simple steps.  You can download it for free by clicking this link:

http://www.thinkandgrowballs.com/blog/2011/05/15/think-grow-balls-free-pdf-download/

Again, thank you for taking the time to send me your thoughts.  I found them very thought-provoking.  I’m wondering if I have your permission to use your message and my response as a post on my new blog?  I think it could help people find their own secret.  Please let me know when you have time.

Onward & Upward,

JD Bloodstone

15May/115

Think & Grow Balls!: Free PDF Download

Think & Grow Balls!

Think & Grow Balls!: Password Scavenger Hunt

I've been thinking of doing something fun with my book for some time now and I thought my new blog would be a great place to try it.  What I would like to do is offer you my book for FREE.  You can download it by clicking the link below:

Think & Grow Balls! Free PDF Download

There, that was easy, wasn't it?  So what's the catch?  Well, the catch is that the file above is "password-protected" and you need a special password to open the file.  So, how do you get the password, you ask?  That's easy!  You just have to complete the Password Scavenger Hunt.

Treasure Map

Here's what you need to do to complete your quest:

  1. Visit and Like the Think & Grow Balls! fan page on Facebook.  There you will need to search the wall to get the first part of the password.
  2. Visit and Follow me on Twitter.  There you will need to search my tweets to get the second part of the password.
  3. Subscribe via e-mail to Think & Grow Balls! Blog by submitting your name and e-mail address in the form on the sidebar on the right side of this blog.  Once you confirm your e-mail address, you will be sent a confirmation message with the third part of the password.
  4. Share this post using the "Share The Wealth" tool below.  You can use any of the social media tabs available on the plug-in to share this post to earn the fourth part of the password.
  5. Like this post using the Facebook "Like" button OR increase its rating using the Google+ "+1" button AND leave a comment at the bottom letting me know you have completed the scavenger hunt.  I will then message you personally via e-mail with the fourth and fifth parts of the password.

Once you have completed the scavenger hunt, you must then enter all five parts of the password IN ORDER and CASE-SENSITIVE to unlock your free copy.

Completing this scavenger hunt and opening your copy has a value of $19.95! I will keep this post up until my publisher realizes what I'm doing and yells at me for being dumb and not sticking to my contract.  So, you may want to get started soon.  Have fun and enjoy!

Onward & Upward!

JD Bloodstone

8May/110

Escape Velocity Pep-Talk #2

Shuttle Endeavor Launch

This post is part two of a multi-part post featuring the original Escape Velocity Pep-Talks written by J.D. Bloodstone.  Originally written in 2008, these pep-talks were a supplemental weekly e-mail course sent to people who downloaded Think & Grow Balls! in its original e-book format.  These newsletters were recently discovered in an archived folder on an old computer after having been lost by the hosting provider and feared lost forever.  I am happy to report that they will be released on this blog over the coming months.

Escape Velocity Pep-Talk #2

As you may already know, recently I've been taking a survey on my website and many people have given me their input as to what topic is most important to them.

I can't tell if you have voted, yet, because it's an anonymous poll, but I want to thank you if you have.

This poll helps me understand what is important to my readers and also helps me validate the content of my ebooks and their ability to help motivate and encourage them to take action in their lives.

Which brings me to my topic for this week.

According to the most recent poll results, "taking action" is now in the lead by almost 10% of the total votes.

I find this reassuring because it lets me know that there are a lot of people just like me out in the world that are dealing with the same issues that have held me back in the past.

I've done a lot of research for the topics I discuss in my e-books and it just so happens that "taking action" is VERY important to MANY people and the topic came up in discussions often.

So, I'll share with you what I've learned.

Taking action isn't always about doing something... sometimes it's about NOT doing something.

And, the decision to DO or NOT TO DO something involves CHANGE.

And, since change is not absolute and the results are not guaranteed, change involves RISK.

And, anytime humans encounter risk, they encounter FEAR.

But what kind of fear?

There are many types of fear and many ways it manifests in our bodies.

From my research, I've found that our fear of taking risks is actually a fear of the UNKNOWN.

It is a fear that is innate and "wired" into our biology.

Throughout our history, fear has played a crucial role in our survival as a species.

Fear of the Unknown

Active decision-making destroys fear

So, how can we overcome our fear of the unknown in a modern world?

I believe I have the answer to this question and I share it with you in my e-books.

I'll give you a hint... it has everything to do with how you think.

In fact, if you can condition or "reprogram" the way you think about fear, courage, action, failure, success, and everything in between, you won't fear the unknown anymore.

You'll be in control of your own thoughts and emotions and you'll find the courage inside you to TAKE ACTION.

I promise you.

I'm so sure I can help you that I'll give you all your money back, without a hassle, if you disagree with me.

Oh yeah, as I'm writing this, I can't tell if you've purchased my e-books... so, if you have, thank you and hopefully these newsletters are giving you a little extra "pep".

I tried to write this entire program in such a way so it would feel as though you were giving yourself a "pep talk" each time you read.

I sincerely hope I can reduce your fear and encourage you to make the happiest life possible for yourself.

Onward & Upward,

JD Bloodstone

4May/110

Think & Grow Balls! – Behind the Scenes w/ J.D. Bloodstone

Think & Grow Balls!

I finished writing Think & Grow Balls! in December of 2007.  The book had been churning in me for years before I actually set down to write everything out.  During my writing, I realized I was suggesting some pretty deep ideas.  Not feeling comfortable with what was in the book I set out to interview as many people as I could to bounce my ideas off of them.  I spent six months conducting field research, meeting and talking to new people, making great friends and solidifying my ideas which later become the final version of my book.  I think my book connects with so many people because my ideas were boiled down to the concepts that bind all of us together.  By the time I had the book ready to submit to my publisher, I had a list of hundreds of people that wanted an advance copy of it.  I knew I had written something good!

The book was written but it didn't have a title.  I wanted it to be catchy.  The name for my book, Think & Grow Balls!, came to me during a late night nap in between writing sessions for another project I was working on - a companion book called How To Find Yourself - which was only available during 2008 and may be released on this blog soon.  As you can guess, the title was heavily influenced by Napoleon Hill's amazing book, Think & Grow Rich (click to download free digital copy of the first edition).

Think & Grow Rich

The subtitle, How To Shrink Your Fear & Enlarge Your Courage came to me soon after.  It came to me in contempt of the aggressive marketing techniques used by a company to push male-enhancement pills to the insecure male population.  I'm sure you've seen the commercials.  (Hint: the guy with the cheesy smile, the whistling, and the color blue everywhere.)  I really felt like the company was taking advantage of men by exploiting a common and huge weakness: the urge to be bigger, and thus better, than other men.  (I later found out that the company was sued for some large sum of money and banned from using the marketing techniques in the future.  I don't see the commercials and I don't hear about the company anymore so I guess the lawsuit put them out of business.  Good riddance.)  The title was finished and made people smile every time they heard it so I went with it.  I registered www.thinkandgrowballs.com, wrote a small ad,  uploaded it to my website, and the rest is history.

Then the feedback came in.  I had readers who liked my book so much they were printing out copies of my book (it was originally an e-book in digital format only) and giving it to their friends.  (Some of them actually wrote me and sent me money via PayPal for the additional copies they made!  Bless your souls, you know who you are!)  E-mails flooded my inbox with feedback from people all over the world letting me know that my book had truly helped them.  Still to this day, when I hear from someone who was helped by my book, it makes me feel better and more alive than I ever do in my life.  I should be the one thanking them when I think about it.

From day one I told everyone that if they bought my book and didn't like it I would personally send them their money back.  After three and a half years, I'm proud to say that no one has ever taken me up on the offer.  So, what are you waiting for?  You can get started by downloading and reading the preview chapters.  I bet you'll like them!

Onward & Upward,

JD Bloodstone